In Nigeria, “I’m on my way” is not a statement.
It’s a mindset.
He sent the text at 6:05 p.m.
I’m on my way.
I smiled.
Not because I believed him.
But because I liked the confidence.
I replied, “Okay 😊”
That emoji alone took effort.
By 6:30, I was still ready.
By 7:00, I had accepted my fate.
I called him.
“Where are you?”
“I’m close,” he said.
Close where?
Close to God?
Close to his house?
Close in spirit?
I didn’t ask.
I already knew.
By 7:45, I had removed my shoes, changed clothes, and sat on my bed pretending not to care. Then my phone buzzed.
I’m outside.
Outside suddenly became very accurate.
I rushed out, heart doing small gymnastics. He was leaning on his car like a Nollywood lead who knew exactly what he was doing. Smiling. Calm. Unbothered by the emotional journey he had just taken me on.
“You said you were on your way since,” I said.
He smiled wider.
“And I arrived, didn’t I?”
Nigerian logic.
We talked.
Too close.
Too soft.
Too intentional.
He teased me.
I pretended not to enjoy it.
I enjoyed it.
At some point, he lowered his voice and said, “You know you look good, right?”
I rolled my eyes.
He smiled like he won.
Before leaving, he said, “Next time, I’ll come early.”
I laughed.
We both knew the truth.